Energetics of Gender Identity and Non-Binary Relationships

Join Erin as she has a beautiful conversation with conscious couple Alexander & Ellyana who identify as Queer and enjoy a non-binary relationship. Get prepared to have all of your questions answered about gender, relationships, and the androgyny of the soul. 

Moments You Don’t Want to Miss:

1:13 - First realizing that they were experiencing gender differently than the average person

2:42 - Dreams of seeing himself in a masculine body

3:45 - Recognizing that he was in the wrong body at 3 or 4 years old 

4:25 - Being attracted to the energy of a person

5:09 - Alexander trying really hard to be a woman before transitioning into a trans man

6:45 - Ellyana begins questioning her identity in her early adult life

7: 28 - Ellyana experimenting with her expression and sexuality 

8:10 - CIS Hetero Normative culture expectations at birth 

9:22 - The Trans Umbrella & questioning gender identity during college 

9:56 - the first time Ellyana hears about pronouns 

10:10 - Ellyana explains what CIS means - the gender you were assigned at birth 

11:13 - stereotypes and social expectation within Trans & LBGTQ culture

11:30 - Ellyana considering herself as being gender non-conforming + fluid 

13:33 - Alexander transitioning as a soul choice as opposed to a choice based off of trauma or lack

15:25 - Individuals hopping on the Trans bandwagon and seeing it as a trend 

15:53 - still being gender fluid as a Trans man

16:32 - being expected to fit the role of a modern man as a Trans man and still wanting to explore gender fluidity 

18:54 - Ellyana explains her initial feelings about dating a Trans man 

20:50 - Identifying as a lesbian although she was dating another trans man prior to Alexander

23:41 - Ellyana identifying with the term Queer because of it's inclusivity 

24 : 13 - Erin highlights that everyone is still just figuring it out and society not feeling entitled to answers

26:00 - Ellyana shares about being in a state of continual evolution 

27:25 - Recognizing that the potential to be sexually or romantically attracted to anyone 

28:33 - Alexander shares about how there's no permanent match for anyone 

29:09 - Loving the spirit of another unconditionally 

30:05 - Questioning organized religion during gender identity discovery

32:56 - Ellyana having a homophobic grandmother

37:14 - Alexander sharing about how he understands the role of religion and doesn't judge it 

38:54 - Allow each soul to walk their path 

39:22 - being a macho man then becoming the person inside 

41:06 - Alexander serving as a spiritual mentor for Ellyana

43:19 - Being a divine union and expanding each other while being individuals 

44:52 - The androgyny of the soul ; Alexanders shares about tapping into his feminine energy as a trans man 

58:26 - Erin shares about the dynamics in her relationship and how following the lead of the queer community can help alleviate limitations around gender roles and expectations 

Alexanders IG : https://instagram.com/lexlyrics?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Ellyana's IG : https://instagram.com/ellyana.music?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=